Anne Bland, Your Tantric Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach

Hi, I'm Anne

I’m a coach, a public speaker – and a Selfishly Happy World Co-Creator.

My deepest desire is to inspire more happiness and pleasure in the world.

Why? Because pleasure-positive and happy people just don’t start wars…

Joking aside, I do believe everyone deserves and is worthy of being happy and having more pleasure and peace in their lives.

We’re all different, but at core, we tend to desire the same things:

  • to love and to be loved
  • to have clarity on our desires and to feel desired
  • to get our needs and desires met
  • to feel that we are safe and
  • that we belong

It would be my honour to have you join the Selfishly Happy Revolution and to start your own, empowering Pleasure Journey as Selfishly Happy You.

After all, pleasure IS your birthright!

Having said that, we can all survive on our own but to thrive, we need other people. Healthy relationships in healthy environments. 

And, I can help you to have those. So, you could say I’m a relationship coach with a difference, looking at your life from a bird’s eye perspective guided by your deepest desires. 

If you’d like to explore more, I invite you to book a free, no obligation call with me with the aim of you gaining clarity on your true desires and to see if we are a good fit to work together.

Pleasure is crucial for joy and feeling fully alive

Pleasure is Your Birthright!

A little bit more about my story...

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Here’s a confession. I didn’t always believe that pleasure was my birthright… 

To be quite honest, I suffered from a burn-out  and had a PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder) from a cycling accident. 

But, there was this part of me that kept wondering if things could be different. It kept nagging me to find out how to be fully alive again! 

As a single mother of three and a recovering Green political leader who worried about the climate change and the state of this beautiful planet, it wasn’t easy…

Little by little, I learned to put myself first and foremost, so that I’d have more to give to my family and to the world.

Just like they say on airplanes: “Put your oxygen mask first before helping others.”

I learned to become a “Selfishly Happy Woman” the hard way. It is my passion now to help others, so that YOU can have it easier, regardless of your gender.

"Anne brings with her a world of knowledge and experience which she is always willing to share. She has a powerful vision of helping people to selfishly reconnect with their true self again. It's funny how she teaches about selfishness, being the total opposite."
Stanley Beckett Selfishly Happy testimonial
Stanley Beckett
CEO and Chief Trainer, South Africa

Loving relationships and living peacefully on this beautiful Planet will make us thrive and feel fully alive.

Anne Bland with books

About my work

Being a multi-passionate woman, I:

  • have gained a MSc. in Philanthropy and Social Investment from Bayes (previously Cass) Business School in London
  • was invited to study Climate Reality Leadership with Al Gore in Johannesburg
  • have qualified as a Breath Coach online from Barcelona
  • have been certified in Men’s Sexuality, Tantric Practice, and on Love, Sex, and Relationship Coaching

I’ve also studied the science of happiness and trauma healing to really understand why humans suffer and how we thrive, and have worked with mission and impact driven organisations in the UK and Finland.

Even though, I’m a self-confessed nerd when it comes to learning and self-development, I’ve also got 15 years of practical experience in 1:1 clinical setting and space holding.

I’ve guided people through deep, yet gentle, transformations and have worked with hundreds of clients around the world.

Start your journey of pleasure, happiness, and peace today! What are your first actions?

Are you ready to have more pleasure, happiness, and peace? If yes, book a call to see if we could work together.