I definitely didn't get here overnight.

In fact, quite the opposite...

Here’s a confession.

I didn’t always believe that pleasure was my birthright…

I suffered from a series of burn-outs, had a PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder) from a cycling accident,

and learned later in my life that I had been

sexually abused as a child twice...

But, there was this part of me that kept wondering

if things could be different.
It kept nagging me to find out how to be fully alive again!

As a single mother of three and a recovering Green political leader who worried about the climate change and the state of this beautiful planet, it wasn’t easy…

Little by little, I learned to put myself first and foremost, so that I’d have more to give to my family and to the world.

Just like they say on airplanes:

“Put your oxygen mask first before helping others.”

Except, that for me, the oxygen mask is PLEASURE.

I learned to become a “Selfishly Happy” the hard way.

It is my passion to help others - so that YOU can have it easier, regardless of your gender.