The Art of Connection

- Tantric Retreat for Couples

18-21.4.2024

at Château Destinée

Dordogne

France

Are you ready to experience heart-opening erotic intimacy?

Are you looking to experience Tantra?

Do you dare to go wherever it takes to have

the body/mind/spirit connection that your love life deserves?

THE ART OF CONNECTION

- Tantric Retreat for Couples

895 €/person

Where you will discover the Power of Tantra together:

to EXPLORE, ENJOY, and ELEVATE

your relationship in a safe and exciting way!

Open to all couples,

this nurturing and non-judgmental space

allows you to connect with your and their desires

in a meaningful way.

You will understand AND experience

ancient Tantric tools and techniques and

how to implement them into your modern life.

This unique 4-day Tantric Retreat is

specifically designed for dynamic couples like you.

Whether you're in a fresh relationship or

one that's been blossoming over time,

this Tantric Retreat is the perfect opportunity

to elevate your connection to a new level of:

PASSION, LOVE and AWARENESS.

Are you ready to go ahead?

Not many of us have been taught

how to keep a relationship alive and vibrant

- and hence, keep the flames of the fire of our intimacy burning.

Relationships don’t just happen.

They need to be fostered and taken care of.

By investing in your relationship

and transforming it,

using the tools you will be taught,

you will not only make your life better

but also the world a better place.

When you and your relationship change,

others around you change too.

This Tantric Retreat is all about sparking joy in relationships.

Picture this: every couple as a shining example of happiness and health,

lighting up the world around them.

That's what this is about!

You will be guided on a playful journey to discover and

share your deepest desires with your partner,

all in a safe and joy-filled space.

With a dash of Sacred Sexuality and the magick of Tantric practices,

you will find that profound, heart-thumping kind of intimacy

that connects you deeply.

Your Elegant Retreat Venue:

Château Destinée

21, Route de Lamothe

24230 Saint-Seurin De Prats

South West of France

www.chateaudestinee.com

This beautiful and elegant Château is in the world-famous Bordeaux wine region,

only 22 km from the UNESCO World Heritage site of Saint-Emilion.

The nearest airports are in Bordeaux and in Bergerac.

In this special and peaceful Château,

surrounded by the beautiful

French countryside,

you can pause the hustle of life and

focus on yourselves and your connection.

This exclusive Tantric Retreat for Couples

has only limited spots,

ensuring that you have an intimate and personalised experience.

Are you ready to secure your place in what promises to be a memorable and transformative experience?

The cost of this couples' retreat is

895 EUROS per person including accommodation, meals and workshops.

For Every Couple

Our retreat is an inclusive haven for all couples,

regardless of gender or sexual orientation.

At the heart of our Tantric Retreat for Couples

is the journey towards a profound and loving bond:

THE CONNECTION.

You will be guided beyond the ordinary.

Through mindful communication,

empathetic understanding, and heartfelt interactions,

you'll strengthen the very core of your relationship.

During the retreat, we will

Explore, Enjoy and Elevate Together

What Happens on the Retreat?

Thursday 18th April 2024

3 pm Arrival, checking into the rooms and an afternoon tea

6 pm Opening Ceremony

7.30 pm Dinner, buffet

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Friday 19th April 2024

8 am Continental Breakfast

9 am Morning Workshop

10.30 am Break

11 am Morning Workshop

1.30 pm Lunch, two courses

3 pm Afternoon Workshop

5 pm Coffee break and free time

7 pm Dinner, three courses

9.30 pm Dance

10.30 pm Finish

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Saturday 20th April 2024

8 am Continental Breakfast

9 am Morning Workshop

10.30 am Break

11 am Morning Workshop

1.30 pm Lunch, two courses

3 pm Afternoon Workshop

5 pm Coffee and free time

7 pm Dinner, three courses

9 pm Evening Workshop

10.30 pm Finish

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Sunday 21st April 2024

8 am Continental Breakfast

9 am Closing Ceremony

11 am Check out

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Deep and Loving

Connection

Elevate your relationship through physical, emotional, mental and spiritual connection. Experience deeper unity and affection where every moment becomes an opportunity for greater intimacy and mutual respect.

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Conscious Communication

Explore new, effective ways to communicate and understand each other on a deeper level. Learn to express your desires, loves, fears, and anxieties in a safe way where you feel heard and seen without judgment or criticism. Learn mutual space-holding skills.

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Enhanced

Pleasure and Bliss

Enjoy learning ancient Tantric techniques to enhance pleasure and intimacy. Explore the power of touch, the art of consent, and the importance of creating a safe and sacred space for your relationship to thrive at all levels.

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Explore Energy

and Chakras

Uncover how Chakras can enhance or block your pleasure. Channel your sexual energy through your body to open doors to new kinds of pleasures, bliss, and sensations. Create your own Tantric Toolkit to transform your intimate moments into a deeply satisfying mutual journey.

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Emotional Transformation

Enhance your emotional intelligence, connection and safety. Experience the profound impact of not just feeling but also transforming emotions that might block you from living fully. Learn how this process opens the door to heightened pleasure and deeper connections with your partner.

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Art of Body Worshipping

Celebrate and appreciate the beauty of your and your partner's physical and spiritual form. Participate in open and respectful discussions about the anatomy of pleasure and a variety of intimate body parts. Gain insights about the difference in turn-on of different bodies.

What is the Price

and What's Included?

The cost of this couples' retreat

is 895 EUROS per person.

  • Daily morning, afternoon, and evening workshops:

    Mind-opening discussions and inspiring talks, intimacy-building and Tantric exercises, conscious communication practices, guided meditations and breathwork, rituals, dancing... and so much more!

  • Accommodation for 4 nights:

    Beautiful and unique double bedrooms with en-suite bathrooms provide a space for both restful sleep and privacy to practice your new skills. All rooms have coffee and tea available.

  • Gourmet meals prepared by the in-house French chef:

    Afternoon tea on arrival and a glass of celebratory crémant, three continental breakfasts, two 2-course lunches, three 3-course dinners, snacks at break times, and tea, coffee and water are available 24/7.

Please note that travel costs or local tax are not included.

Tantra is...

a beautiful philosophy of life and a joyful and delicious practice for

healing and creating happiness, pleasure, and peace in your life.

It's all about connection.

Connection to yourself, others and the world at large.

Meet Your Facilitator,

Anne Bland!

I'm Anne Bland, a public speaker, podcaster, and Tantric Sex and Relationship Coach.

As a burn-out and childhood sexual trauma survivor, I'm grateful for Tantra which taught me that pleasure is everyone's birthright.

Tantra has been in my life since my early twenties. However, I just didn't know what to call this sacred sexuality and philosophy then.

Classical Tantric philosophy is the base of my personal and spiritual development and the sexual neo-Tantric practices are part of my Thriving Toolkit - and I love to teach them.

I'm a certified VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coach, specialised in Men's Sexuality, Tantric Sex and Breath and trauma-informed Coaching.

My background is in leadership in politics and the social enterprise sector and my Master's Degree is in social investment and philanthropy from Bayes Business School in London.

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FAQ

Are we going to be nude in this retreat?

During the workshops, we will always stay dressed. You can get nude and apply what you've learned during the workshops in your private room. In fact, we encourage you to practice in your privacy when you have free time.

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Is there going to be sexuality in the workshops?

We are going to talk about sexuality and some exercises can stimulate sexual/vital energy. There will not be any sexuality during the workshops. If you need to leave the workshop because you feel a lot of turn-on, you are welcome to do so and go to your private room. I will, however, teach tools and techniques to channel your sexual energy when in public spaces.

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 Do we have to have experience with Tantra?

No, this is a Tantric Retreat for beginners and I will explain and teach you the basics. But it is also for expert couples. If you want to deepen your connection with your partner and learn new communication skills and Tantric tools to find and maintain the spark in your relationship, this is the perfect retreat for you.

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Can I drink alcohol during the retreat?

We are in one of the most famous wine regions in the world! However, to remain fully present, and connected to yourself and your partner, and to enhance your experiences through all five senses, I highly recommend abstaining from alcohol. You will get a glass of crèmant, though, upon arrival to celebrate your new journey. For an extra cost, we are also happy to organise a visit to a local vineyard before or after the Retreat.

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I have food allergies. Will you support my diet?

Yes! Please let us know your allergies and intolerances and the in-house Chef will make sure your meals are prepared accordingly.

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I am single but interested in this retreat.

Can I come on my own?

Sorry, this is a couples' retreat. However, you are very welcome to come with a friend or bring a date but you do need to feel comfortable to share a double bed. In the workshops, there is no nudity. In future, there will be retreats for individuals too, so please let me know and I will add you to the email list.

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Will we do excursions and visit the region?

This is Tantric retreat, not a touristic tour. There will be some downtime for you to enjoy local nature (the River Dordogne!) and to practice Tantra in your private room. Having said that, you are welcome to arrive a day earlier and/or stay for another night after the retreat for an additional cost to explore this famous and historical wine region. We are very happy to recommend places to visit.

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What if I don’t want to do an exercise?

I highly recommend listening to yourself. If an exercise does not feel right, get in touch with me. I can help you to find out what is hindering you. I invite participants to respect their proper limits and boundaries and to express them. There is no right or wrong. 

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 What if I don’t like this retreat at all?

I have put my heart and soul into this retreat and will share a lot of my knowledge and experiences. I have gone through everything that I teach and share - and have also struggled with body/mind parts that did not want to continue. Please reach out to discuss what it is you don’t like.

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Will I get my money back if I decide to not come to the workshop but stay in our room?

I'm very positive that you will love this retreat. You have signed up because something within you decided that you wanted to come here. Resistance is coming up when we do not feel safe and don’t want to get out of our comfort zone - and that's okay. However, you've come to transform, grow and experience, and I invite you to contact me to get support. Unfortunately, I cannot issue a refund as I have already accrued costs for your being there.

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Will you pick us up at the airport?

No, there is no shuttle service. I kindly ask you to take a train and then a taxi or hire a car and enjoy the beautiful French countryside! Please check out the information you will get with your confirmation email.

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What is included in the cost?

Daily morning, afternoon and evening workshops in a safe space. Your accommodation is in a beautiful private double room with an en-suite bathroom. Three breakfasts, two lunches and three dinners, snack at break time, and coffee, tea and water are available 24/7. Afternoon tea and a welcome glass of crèmant on an arrival day.

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How much does it cost?

The cost is 895 EUROS per person (1790 € per couple).

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English is not my mother tongue. Will I understand?

Neither it is mine! So, I do understand well how studying something in English can feel. But please know that this is not a theory or talk-based retreat but a transformational and practical one. I can help with some translation into French and Finnish. However, a basic level of English is required to get a full benefit from the retreat.

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Are You Still Wondering if Tantra Is for You?

If yes, we understand that so well.

Afterall, Tantra is very

misunderstood in the society.

No, it is not about polyamory.

No, it's not about orgies.

No, it's not some hoo-ha weird stuff...

Or it can be all that too if you so wish!

The main thing is that you get to choose.

You are always in charge.

For us,

Tantra is something that fits into our modern life.

It makes it more joyable, fun, and

absolutely delicious at so many levels.

It connects the love and awareness into sexuality.

It brings vitality and juiciness into into life.

If yes, I understand that so well.

Afterall, Tantra is very

misunderstood in the society.

No, it is not about polyamory.

No, it's not about orgies.

No, it's not some hoo-ha weird stuff...

Or it can be all that too if you so wish!

The main thing is that you get to choose.

You are always in charge.

For me,

Tantra is something that fits into our modern life.

It makes it more enjoyable, fun, and

absolutely delicious at so many levels.

It connects love and awareness to sexuality.

It brings vitality and juiciness into life.

- Anne x

And if you are still wondering

if this Retreat is worth your while,

here are TWO BONUSES

I'd love to offer you...

  • A complimentary 45-minute online call

    As a couple, get clarity on your intentions and desires and ask any remaining questions during this private, pre-retreat call with a Retreat Facilitator.

  • The Art of Connection App

    This is your Tantric Toolkit on your mobile phone! You can take all that you learned during the retreat into your daily life and continue practising after the retreat with the help of our app. You will always have us in your pocket :)

    You can also email me at annebland(at)selfishlyhappyyou.com or use the Chat option to send me your questions.

So, to secure your place in this unique retreat and to start your journey

towards a more loving, connected, and fulfilling partnership, please click below.

I believe in the transformative power

of love and connection.

Life is an adventure of love,

too precious not to be lived fully.

Come on this journey with me,

where every moment is an opportunity

to deepen your connection

and explore the depths of your relationship.

© 2023-2024 Anne Bland. All Rights Reserved.

DISCLAIMER:

Please note that you need to contact your medical doctor if you have health or

mental health problems or if you are concerned about Tantra or breathwork.

Anne Bland and any other facilitators are not medical practitioners or psychotherapists.

This is shared as a learning and entertainment opportunity.