Tantric Sex and Relationship Coaching
- The Selfishly Happy Way

Are you ready to reclaim your own pleasure, happiness, and peace?

To become masterful in your sex and love life? And to make a difference in the world?

If you are: welcome! You are in the right place and I celebrate you!

I’m Anne Bland, an international Tantric Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach. 

It’s a pleasure to meet you.

Download my free eBook:

‘Pleasure is Your Birthright – 7 Holistic Sex Tools’

If you’re ready to discuss, let’s hop on a call to see if we’re a good fit. Otherwise, please read on.

Selfishly Happy Coaching with Anne Bland

Selfishly Happy with Anne Bland

Through my online coaching and courses, you will:

  • Become MORE of yourSELF, not less
  • Gain clarity on your true desires and how to get them met
  • Become masterful in your sex and love life 
  • Connect with and belong to a like-minded community
  • Co-create the change you want to see in the world

Let there be pleasure, happiness, and peace - and let it all start with YOU.

Would you like to have:

  • better sex?
  • sacred sex?
  • conscious relationships?

If that’s a YES to any of those questions, I’d love to email you my FREE eBook called:

Pleasure is Your Birthright – 7 Holistic Sex Tools

Get your eBook from here!

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for individuals and couples

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both free and paid (coming in 2023)

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of like-minded people


Courses (in 2023)


Hi, I'm Anne!

Anne Bland, Selfishly Happy You Coaching

I am passionate about helping people to build better relationships.

Better relationships with themselves, with their lovers and families, but also with their communities and countries, and even with the global world, the Planet Earth, and with their spiritual selves. 

We can survive on our own – but we can only thrive in relation to others and our environment, both natural and spiritual.

Connection is the key! 

I’m combining my:

  • experience as a political and a climate reality leader
  • a consultant for the social enterprise and the voluntary sectors
  • higher education in social impact and philanthropy
  • training in Taoist Tantric and breathwork coaching
  • training in modern neuroscience, happiness science, and social science 
  • 15 years of 1:1 clinical experience
  • personal lived-in experience as a burn-out and a trauma survivor 

All that is in helping you to become the person you want to be and to be the change in the world you want to see.

Start your journey of pleasure, happiness, and peace today!

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